A romance scammer can target anyone on a dating app (such as Tinder, Match, Bumble, or Hinge) or through social media (such as Facebook, Instagram or Tik Tok), regardless of age, gender or sexual orientation, but generally, victims tend to be older people, who may be vulnerable or isolated.
The scammer will initially contact someone via a dating app, but then move communication off the app to messaging or email. Spotting a scammer can be difficult. They usually appear to be very interested in the other person, asking lots of questions, but may not be so forthcoming about themselves, yet they will be quick to provide reassurance about their identity, for example providing a copy of their passport or driver’s licence.
Often the victims feel flattered and believe a mutual bond exists between them. If you trust someone, you’d be happy to help them out. Right? Then questions like this start to be asked by the scammer – “My salary is due on Monday, can you lend me some money until the weekend?” But you’ve never met this person face-to-face, your goodwill is being taken advantage of, and they have no intention of ever paying you back.